Turn ons:

Freedom and self-expression—dancing in the rain, improvising, and the sensuality of movement when the body speaks instead of words. Contrasts—the mix of dynamism (ice skating, energetic music) and stillness (yoga, reading under trees).

Turn offs:

Banality and routine—a lack of imagination, cliché conversations, and predictability. Rudeness and cynicism—destroying the magic of everyday life, mocking dreaminess. Restrictions—when someone tries to impose limits ("that’s not how it’s done," "that’s silly").

About me: