It makes me horny to feel desire and connection. It excites me that they look at me with enthusiasm, that they speak in my ear with intention and that they know how to touch my mind before my body. I am open-minded, I like to explore, try new things and
Turn offs:
Disrespect and unintentional rudeness turn me off. It makes me cold that there is no connection, that they just want to run and don't know how to enjoy the moment. I don't like pressure, nor that they ignore my limits or my energy.