I am turned on by the game - not just the action, but the anticipation itself. I like it when I am slowly aroused, when the desire is growing, the tension becomes almost unbearable, but the moment of pleasure is still delayed, teased, not allowed to immediately get what you want so much.
Turn offs:
I am repelled by monotony, mechanicalness, lack of passion. If there is no spark, if everything is just for show, without real desire, without fire - it is not for me.
I do not tolerate indifference. If you are here - burn, desire, feel me as I feel you. Otherwise, what is all this for?