I get excited by easy, casual communication and a feeling of soulmate💓.
When I'm treated with respect and admiration🥰.
And also the more and better I am pampered, the more... well, you understand 😏🔥
Turn offs:
When I'm asked to do something for free;
when they devalue me, my efforts and work;
when they show pressure and passive aggression;
when they ask me to do something I don't like💩