Turn ons:

What turns us on isn't always the obvious. Sometimes it's that look that lingers too long, or when someone gets close just to tease.

Turn offs:

What can extinguish us isn't routine, but when we stop seeing each other as we used to. When desire becomes automatic and there's no longer any play, no more surprise. We're chilled by the rush, the distractions, when the body is there but the mind isn't. When we're together but not present.

About me: