I am turned on by men who are confident, smart and attentive. I love the game of being tender and passionate, bold and submissive. Passion, novelty, attention to detail and real chemistry are what turns me on. Reciprocity and sincerity are important.
Turn offs:
I am put off by a fixation on the negative and a lack of desire to change. I value openness and a willingness to share, but I do not like stinginess when they take without giving anything in return. I have boundaries, and mutual respect, attention and balance in communication are important.