I am delighted with the sincerity and courage. If you're willing to take risks, be vulnerable at the right times, and aren't afraid to cross the 'just acquaintances' line, you automatically have my full interest.
Turn offs:
I'm not looking for fans, I'm looking for duet partners. I don't like false notes: be honest, even if it's not perfect. If you donβt appreciate my hobbies or try to put me down in order to look higher, this is dissonance that I immediately drown out.