A man who knows exactly what he wants. Eye contact. It makes everything so much more intense. Playful teasing. The build-up is always the best part. Fulfilling desires. Tell me your secrets, I don't judge.
Turn offs:
Rudeness. Respect is a must, no matter how wild we get.
Demands. Ask nicely, and you might get exactly what you want.
Cheap talk. Actions speak louder than words.