Turn ons:

Control - when I lead or when they confidently lead me. Toys - new sensations, textures, surprises. Changing rooms are slow, with pauses, each layer with anticipation. Sharp mind, calm confidence, long conversations with pauses. Sincere laughter. Freedom to be yourself.

Turn offs:

Arrogance for no reason. People who talk but don't listen. Lack of taste - in words, clothes, actions. Haste and demands are here and now. Rudeness and attempts to violate boundaries. Passivity and boredom. Lack of a sense of humor. People who can't laugh at themselves.

About me: