Confidence, intelligence, great conversation, strong eye contact, and genuine chemistry turn me on. I love someone who knows what they want but still understands the importance of respect, patience, and anticipation. Make me laugh, stimulate my mind.
Turn offs:
Disrespect, BROKE MEN, entitlement without money to back it up, excessive demands without money to back it up, and anyone who refuses to respect boundaries immediately turn me off. I do not enjoy being rushed, pressured, or treated like an object. Confidence is attractive; arrogance is not.