It turns me on when they look at me with desire, when they feel like playing with me and don't hide it. It turns me on when they talk to me richly, when they tell me what they want to do to me and how they imagine me. It drives me crazy when they take control...
Turn offs:
I am turned off by rudeness without permission, bad words that do not seduce, rudeness and lack of respect. It makes me cold when someone demands without seducing, when there is no chemistry or intention to connect. I don't like rushing, or wanting to skip the foreplay...