Turn ons:

For me arousal begins way before any physical touch. It is the anticipation, the sensation that pervades my body when I think of how I will be fucked. How I will be undressed, how I will be kissed, and how I will reciprocate. All of this is way before I am even touched. Flirting plays a big part. Then maybe holding hands or being held by my man, and finally when I find myself alone with him.

Turn offs:

Refusal to admit they have done anything wrong. Never apologizing. Constantly positioning as the victim. Deluding themselves by twisting reality so they never have to honestly look at themselves.

About me: