Turn ons:

Confidence and gentle assertiveness, long glances that start out tender and gradually become more intense. I like it when a partner can read my body language and mood, and when there's passion and attention to detail.

Turn offs:

Rudeness without consent, pressure, a lack of respect for boundaries, vulgarity for the sake of vulgarity, and a complete lack of tact. I don't like people who don't know how to listen to and empathize with their partner. Indifference, cynicism

About me: