Confident energy
Eye contact that undresses me
Gentle dominance
Dirty talk whispered like a secret
Hands on my hips or neck
Men who don’t rush and know how to build tension
Teasing until neither of us can resist
Someone who knows how to match my rhythm
Turn offs:
Rudeness or disrespect
Guys who brag too much
Being rushed or pressured
Bad hygiene
People who don’t listen or don’t know how to vibe
“Hey” with nothing else
Cheap attitudes
Zero effort (that’s an immediate nope)