Confidence without arrogance. A man who knows how to hold a conversation as well as he holds attention. I like being spoiled, being adored, and being in control of exactly how that happens. Wit gets you further than flattery ever will.
Turn offs:
Rudeness, impatience, and anyone who thinks a tip is a transaction instead of a gesture. I don't negotiate, I don't rush, and I have zero interest in fake charm. Come correct or don't come at all.