I can’t give an unambiguous answer, because I can worry me to a whole series of things. But the main thing for me is a sense of novelty and research. I am always open to new sensations and experience.
Turn offs:
I am turned off by any sign of disrespect for my boundaries, disregard for my consent, or attempts to pressure me. And also the rush and lack of foreplay are repulsive, which deprive intimacy of sensuality and pleasure.