openly talking about desires and fantasies is arousing,, visuals as in turning on camera and seeing someone or observing an intimate act
Turn offs:
arrogance putting others down is generally a major turn off for me ,lack of respect disrespecting boundaries is a quick way to kill attraction ,dishonest lying can quickly erode trust and make a person feel unsafe .
About me:
generous and ambitious not afraid to accept change ,loyal to my special ones,i"m open minded and ready to explore both our fantasies