I am aroused when a man is polite, calm, and considerate. When he knows exactly what a girl needs, knows what is appropriate and what is not. When to be rough and when to be gentle.
Turn offs:
I don't like it when people violate my personal space or are rude in the first few minutes of conversation. Of course, there may be cases when this is appropriate, but most often I prefer to get to know a person better before that.