I get turned on by moments when I feel closeness and connection with a person. I love it when we can openly share our desires and fantasies. It is the joy of communication when I see that my presence brings pleasure and I can make someone happy.
Turn offs:
On an intimate level, I am turned off by disrespect and rudeness. I value a cozy atmosphere and openness, so coldness or indifference can ruin my mood. I also don't like it when people disrespect my boundaries and desires.